Dating 101
With everything going on it is apparent that it has become harder and harder to remain positive when it comes to dating however if you continue to see the same results you might want to look at the first impression that you are leaving. Too often I receive feedback from one of my clients that they…
International Day Of Happiness!
While faced with this global crisis and the feeling of being isolated from your co-workers, friends, family, gyms and every other area of familiarity of your life, don’t forget to take a moment and appreciate all that you have. Today is the International day of happiness. Take these three simple steps to try to maintain…
Thinking outside the box
We are experiencing a time that many of us have not seen in our lifetime. Uncertainty of what is going to happen from not only day to day but sometimes hour to hour. Dating has become challenging and meeting people has become even more of a challenge with restaurants, coffee shops, bars, gyms, etc closing…
That time of year again
We all know that Valentine’s Day is a contrived holiday that was invented by the greeting card industry. Hallmark first offered greeting cards in 1913 and began producing them in 1916. February has long been associated with romance. Some people find themselves feeling lonelier than usual on this day. A lot of the times due…
What is emotional security?
What is emotional security and why is it important in a relationship? You may be lacking the feeling of safety in your relationship if you do not feel your partner respects you, assumes the worst of you, or is rude, hostile and seems detached. When you are in a relationship it is important to be…
Are you tired of being ghosted?
If you meet someone and they are there one day, everything seems to be going well and then the next day, “poof” they’re gone, you’ve been ghosted!Being ghosted hurts even more than being dumped. It leaves a level of uncertainty but not before going through numerous emotions starting with paranoia. If it takes an uncharacteristically…
Are you doing something to spook your date?
Well, you seem to be meeting people but you can’t get past the first date. Are you doing something to scare them away? Are you having the same result date after date? I know it’s hard to believe that it could be something that you are doing and it feels better to place the blame on the…
Dating is competitive
Dating, like many other things in your life such as your career, is extremely competitive. Are you putting the best version of yourself out there? Are you focusing on your personal life as much as your professional life? So often people with put their focus on every other area of their life besides the most…
Hung up on the past?
Is being hung up on the past affecting your future? There are numerous circumstances from your past that you could be still allowing to control your life. Whether it is mistrust from a past relationship, hung up on an ex, perhaps even a feeling of abandonment that stems from something much deeper. If you haven’t…
Who should hire a professional matchmaker
Too Busy? Online dating can be very time consuming. Going through profiles, deciphering who you want to contact, what messages you would like to respond to, figuring out which profiles are real and which ones might be a scam, waiting for responses, back and forth messaging without face to face meetings. All of these things take…