Why it’s important
One thing that separates us from online dating is the feedback that our clients give us about their date. When we introduce you to someone we want to know how your meeting went. It is crucial to the process to know what your likes and dislikes are so adjustments may be made to your preferences to better fine-tune your searches.
Sharing your likes, dislikes and the impression that you were left with helps us with the next search that we do for you. Every detail that you can provide us helps us target in so we can hit the bullseye.
Of course not every match is going to result in a happy hold of your program but we know our approach with fine-tuning each match will renew your excitement about finding you “your one”.
If there is no immediate spark on the first meeting however you feel there is some potential, give that person the benefit of the doubt that perhaps their nerves got the best of them or simply having an “off day”.
The more information that you can provide us with, the easier it is to fine-tune your future matches and the faster we can successfully get you to the right one. Simply telling us that there is no chemistry does not give us a direction to go. What were the things that you liked about them? What are the things you would like us to change? Even though physical attraction is important, there are several other things that are crucial while searching for your life partner. For example, sense of humor, ability to have a conversation on your desired level, future goals, friendliness, personality, etc. Don’t get me wrong, we also want to fine-tune any physical attributes that feel off for you but having an overall picture is certainly preferred. I understand it is easier to simply say that there was no chemistry but take your time to actually think about what you want to see the change in your next match, make sure that you are being realistic in what you want in a partner and express that to us.
Don’t worry about hurting anyone’s feelings. Feedback is confidential and we are discreet with the information that you provide.
Our goal is for you to have the success that you desire as quickly as possible. Life is short and we know that people don’t come to us simply to date, they come to us because they are serious about finding the one person they want to spend the rest of their life with. We want that just as badly as you but as I have expressed several times, this is a team effort and your feedback is a big part of the process.